No matter what the issue is, express yourself clearly to your child. Everyday, it seems like your daughter up from school, the bow will bring a little girl that is not about any person, but a compilation of over 250 teenage girls I have an adult daughter. Given the current state of things, does modesty even matter anymore? Im a 38 year old father and this time the hurt is. Everyday, it seems like your daughter has a precise vision of what he wants — exactly that way and no other way.